You realize that the marriage is not working. For a long time now, you and your spouse have not been fulfilling each other's needs. You've grown apart. Maybe one or the other of you has looked outside the marriage for a satisfaction of needs, which has led to deterioration of trust. Layers of blame and … [Read more...] about Framing The Divorce Process
THE IMPORTANCE OF THE LANGUAGE WE USE
How we talk to ourselves and how we talk to others has everything to do with attitude, frame of mind and ultimately our actions. In divorce if we think of ourselves as adversaries and use adversarial language, our frame of mind will be confrontational, adversarial and lead to an expectation of the worst rather than the best from the spouse we are engaged with in a dissolution of … [Read more...] about THE IMPORTANCE OF THE LANGUAGE WE USE
Working with the Mind in Divorce
We are Vulnerable to our Mind States - Whether we realize it or not, our mind state at any given moment is a reflection of our reality. In fact, whether we are happy or sad depends more on our inner terrain than it does on external circumstances. Have you ever been in a situation, where by all rights you should be in a celebratory mood, glowing with happiness, and you just don't … [Read more...] about Working with the Mind in Divorce